Dear friends,
In this week´s Thora portion we encounter the story of Pinchas in which we learn that too often we make assumptions about the true intentions of others.
We assume things from our own limited perspective and give meaning to it.
Your friend didn’t call you back? You must have done something to upset them. Part of your nation has built an altar across the river? They must be worshiping a foreign G-D.
No places for an event? They must have chucked you out and left a space open for a selected few.
So how do we know what someone’s true intentions are? How did Pinchas know what part of the nation´s true intentions were?
He simply asked them.
How did the tribes respond? They were scared even to think anyone would assume their altar was for other G-Ds. “G-D, the Lord G-D! G-D, the Lord G-D!”
Because Pinchas tested his assumptions, the tribes were able to explain that they built the altar to the G-D of Israel.
This reminds us that by simply asking other people about their intentions, we allow ourselves the time and perspective to respond to appropriately, avoid misunderstandings, and develop more positive relationships.
Curiosity is key!
Shabbath Shalom
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